The drama in Real Housewives of Orange County (RHOC) is heating up again, and at the center of it all is the long-standing feud between Gretchen Rossi and Tamra Judge. Gretchen, who is making her highly anticipated return to the show, has once again accused Tamra of manipulating storylines, fabricating lies, and destroying reputations for the sake of staying relevant.
But is there any truth to Gretchen’s claims? And is Tamra really the most dangerous power player in RHOC history? Let’s break it all down.

Gretchen’s Explosive Allegations Against Tamra
Gretchen has never been shy about expressing her disdain for Tamra. Back in October, she took to Instagram to slam Tamra’s behavior, claiming:
“I think it’s sad that [Tamra’s] been getting away with harming so many people for years now. She will destroy your character, your livelihood, your businesses … under the guise of claiming she is just a ‘truth teller.’”
She didn’t stop there. Gretchen went on to accuse Tamra of being “evil, manipulative, and conniving,” suggesting that Tamra intentionally sabotages cast members while pretending to be the voice of honesty.
This isn’t the first time Tamra has been called out for her cutthroat tactics. Many former RHOC stars have echoed similar sentiments, with some claiming that Tamra masterminds drama behind the scenes to stay in the spotlight.
Tamra’s Track Record: A History of Manipulation?
If we take a closer look at Tamra’s history on RHOC, we can see why she has earned a reputation as one of the show’s most ruthless cast members:
Backstabbing “Friends”: Tamra has been accused multiple times of turning on her closest friends. Remember when she betrayed Shannon Beador after years of friendship? Or how she threw Vicki Gunvalson under the bus when it was convenient?
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Feeding False Narratives: Tamra has been caught spreading rumors about her castmates—whether it was questioning Alexis Bellino’s marriage, claiming Heather Dubrow was a diva, or stirring up drama about Gretchen’s engagement.
Master of Playing the Victim: Even when Tamra is at the center of the mess, she somehow spins the narrative to make herself look like the victim. She cries, plays innocent, and blames everyone else for the chaos she creates.
Why Is Tamra Still on RHOC?
With so many accusations against her, why does Tamra continue to be a central figure in the franchise? The answer is simple: She brings drama, and Bravo loves drama.
Tamra is a master at:
✅ Keeping herself relevant by staying involved in every major conflict.
✅ Creating alliances and then destroying them when it benefits her.
✅ Always having a new enemy to fight, ensuring she stays in the spotlight.
This formula has worked for years, making Tamra one of the most talked-about Housewives in the franchise—whether people love her or hate her.
Will Gretchen Take Tamra Down?
Now that Gretchen is back in RHOC, she has a golden opportunity to finally expose Tamra once and for all. But will she succeed?
Tamra isn’t one to back down from a fight, and she’s known for being ruthless when it comes to taking down her enemies. If Gretchen wants to take on Tamra, she needs to:
🔥 Call out Tamra’s hypocrisy on camera instead of just online.
🔥 Expose past instances of manipulation with receipts (we know Bravo loves a good flashback).
🔥 Get the other cast members on her side before Tamra turns them against her.
One thing is certain: RHOC is about to get even messier, and we’re here for it. 🍿
Final Thoughts: Is Tamra the “Snake” of RHOC?
Love her or hate her, there’s no denying that Tamra Judge is one of the most strategic Housewives of all time. Whether she’s truly the ultimate villain or just playing the reality TV game better than everyone else, she knows exactly how to manipulate situations to her advantage.
The real question is: Will Gretchen be the one to finally outplay her? 👀
What do you think? Is Tamra RHOC’s ultimate snake, or is she just doing what it takes to survive in the Housewives world? Drop your thoughts below! ⬇️🔥