The Real Housewives of New York City (RHONY) is no stranger to drama, but the recent feud between Brynn Whitfield and Ubah Hassan has left fans questioning: is Brynn being unfairly targeted by her fellow cast members? As tensions boil over, speculation grows about whether Ubah and other castmates are forming alliances to make Brynn the season’s scapegoat.
One of the most dramatic moments of the season unfolded during the cast trip to Puerto Rico. After a heated argument, Brynn left the trip early, citing emotional exhaustion and feeling unsupported. Ubah’s controversial comment—insinuating Brynn may have compromised her integrity to join the show—was a pivotal point. While Ubah later claimed she was unaware of Brynn’s history with sexual assault, fans and Brynn herself were left questioning her sincerity. Was this an honest mistake, or part of a larger effort to undermine Brynn?
Reality television thrives on alliances, and RHONY is no exception. Some viewers have pointed out subtle cues suggesting that certain cast members may be working together to marginalize Brynn. For instance, when Brynn tried to open up about her personal struggles, some castmates appeared dismissive, framing her vulnerability as a manipulative tactic. Could this behavior indicate a premeditated strategy to isolate Brynn from the group?
Jenna Lyons, Erin Lichy, and Raquel Chevremont have been portrayed as neutral or supportive of Brynn, but even those relationships have faced scrutiny. During key moments, these cast members seemed hesitant to fully back Brynn, raising questions about whether they fear alienating the more dominant voices in the group, like Ubah or Sai De Silva.
One factor complicating the narrative is the power of editing. RHONY producers have a knack for crafting storylines that heighten drama, leaving fans to wonder how much of what they see reflects reality. Is Brynn truly being isolated, or is this simply the way her story arc has been edited to appear?
Fans have noted that certain scenes—like Brynn’s emotional departure from Puerto Rico—focus heavily on her reaction while minimizing the actions of others. This selective storytelling could amplify the perception of Brynn as a victim, whether or not that’s the full picture.
Ubah’s attempt to apologize to Brynn has been met with skepticism. While Ubah insists her intentions were genuine, Brynn has stated she wasn’t ready to accept the apology, needing more time to process her emotions. Some fans speculate that Ubah’s timing may have been strategic—an effort to repair her public image rather than truly mend her relationship with Brynn. If true, this would add another layer to the theory that Ubah is part of a larger effort to control the season’s narrative.
This isn’t the first time a cast member on RHONY has been painted as the outcast. In past seasons, viewers have seen how group dynamics shift to target one individual, often creating the most memorable drama. Is Brynn merely the latest victim of this cyclical pattern, or is there something unique about her situation that’s making her a lightning rod for conflict?
If there’s any truth to the idea of a coordinated effort against Brynn, it raises important questions about the ethics of reality TV. At what point does the drama cross the line into bullying? And how does this dynamic impact the mental health of cast members like Brynn, who are dealing with real-life trauma?
As the reunion looms, fans will be watching closely to see if any cast members acknowledge their role in Brynn’s isolation. Will the reunion bring clarity and accountability, or will it serve as another platform to perpetuate the drama?
Whether or not Ubah and other cast members are actively teaming up against Brynn, it’s clear that RHONY thrives on creating tension and division. For now, Brynn appears to be holding her ground, but the road to reconciliation—or redemption—is far from certain. One thing is clear: the drama is far from over, and fans will be eagerly tuning in to see what happens next.