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Tamra Judge Breaks Down Over Vicki Gunvalson’s Shocking Comments About Her Daughter Sidney

Tamra Judge shared a video of herself crying and begging Vicki Gunvalson to stop talking about her estranged relationship with her daughter Sidney Barney.

“I’ve tried so hard not to listen to what Vicki had said about me, and I just keep getting bombarded with it,” Judge said through tears on her Instagram Story Wednesday.

“I’m in just disbelief, in such disbelief that this woman would go so low.”

10 Tamra Judge shared a video of herself crying and begging Vicki Gunvalson to stop talking about her family on her Instagram Story Wednesday.tamrajudge/Instagram

10 The “Real Housewives of Orange County” star cried while lying in bed and recovering from her recent plastic surgery.tamrajudge/instagram  

Judge, whose face was swollen in the selfie-style video after her recent plastic surgery, asked her “Real Housewives of Orange County” co-star whether she knows “what it’s like to lose a child.”



“It’s the most painful thing in the world,” she said while breathing heavily.

Judge, 57, also denied that her time on “RHOC” had anything to do with the fallout after Gunvalson, 62, claimed Barney, 25, wants her mom to “get off” the Bravo reality show and “stop embarrassing the family.”

10 Judge broke down while speaking about her relationship with her estranged daughter, Sidney Barney (pictured together with Judge’s ex-husband Simon Barney).tamrajudge/Instagram

10 Gunvalson previously said Judge had “f—ked up” by not repairing her relationship with Sidney during Monday’s episode of her podcast.My Friend Soulmate Podcast

“You win, Vicki. I don’t know what you want from me, but you got it. You win, OK? You kick me when I’m down. You hurt me all the time. I can’t do it anymore. I don’t want any part of this. You can have my spot on the show. You can have whatever you want. Just please leave my family alone. Please! I can’t do this,” she whispered while sobbing.



Judge’s emotional post came one day after she bashed Gunvalson as “disgusting in every sense of the word” for saying she had “f–ked up” her relationship with Barney.

“To go after my family and everything, that’s what she does. I don’t know why she’s doing it. Maybe she needs a little attention, maybe someone needs to pat her back like a little puppy, but I’m not gonna do it,” she said on her Instagram Story Tuesday.

10 Judge spoke about Gunvalson’s comments on her Instagram Story Wednesday.tamrajudge/Instagram

10 The Vena CBD co-founder initially said she did “not give a s—t” about her former friend’s remarks in an Instagram Story Tuesday.tamrajudge/Instagram    

The “Two Ts in a Pod” co-host called her fractured relationship with her daughter “very tragic and sad,” adding that she believes it is “disgusting” for her former friend to publicly discuss the drama.



“Vicki, go away. Leave me alone. I’m going to ask you for the last time, leave me alone. Nobody cares what you have to say ever. Go away,” she fumed.

Gunvalson first made headlines for criticizing the mother-daughter relationship in Monday’s episode of “My Friend, My Soulmate, My Podcast.”

“Go apologize and make it better and move on!” she urged Judge, later adding, “Reconcile with your daughter! It’s pretty simple.”

10 Judge and Gunvalson, pictured here in November 2021, were once good friends.GC Images

10 Gunvalson, pictured here with Judge and Shannon Beador, urged her ex-BFF to “apologize and make it better and move on.”Instagram

10 Judge has been estranged from Sidney, pictured here with Simon and Sophia Barney, over her divorce.sbarney855/Instagram

10 Judge recently told Page Six that she has made “some progress” with Sidney.tamrajudge/Instagram  



Judge previously shared that she and her daughter became estranged over her divorce from Simon Barney.

“Unfortunately, Sidney’s on Simon’s side. She doesn’t really speak to any of us. It’s difficult. It’s like your child’s dead, but they’re still alive,” she said in the “RHOC” Season 18 premiere in July.

The Vena CBD co-founder later told Page Six exclusively that there had been “some progress” with Sidney starting to talk with her and Simon’s other kids: son Spencer, 23, and daughter Sophia, 18.